Switches are BDSM players that both dominate and submit and/or both top and bottom (put simply, the distinction is psychological and physical). There are some subtle points when you are dealing with switches, in terms of navigating the types of rapport you may have, and how to work with it best to have the mutually Read more…
This is inspired by the Bizzie Bone song “On the Freeway”. Check it out after reading 🙂 Driving home down the highway, Candice sees traffic up ahead. Sighing, she turns on her audiobook and prepares for a long wait. She starts slowing down as the cars are barely moving up ahead and comes to a Read more…
She wakes up from her slumber to an unbearably chaotic commotion outside. Walking out of her hut, her heart sinks as she sees smoke coming from the outskirts of the village in all directions. Men running with swords, a mix of fear and rage in their eyes. The nays of horses, clashing metal, screams of Read more…
So you’ve decided to go Greek. Anal sex can be good fun for everyone involved, as long as there is an adequate prelude. Note that this article will strictly discuss penetration inside a woman’s ass. Pegging, wherein the man’s ass is stimulated by a woman wearing a strap-on, will be the topic of another article. Read more…
Let’s divide these into the two categories as depending on whether a D/s element is essential to the play. The list is not comprehensive of course, but I think most other options one can thinkk of will have a resemblance to the overall natural story arc of one of these. Without (Necessary) D/s Component Massage Read more…
So there was this girl who ran a radio show centered around sex at the university radio station and she had 1) seen me around and liked the look of me and 2) heard that I practiced BDSM. So she invited me to be part of her show for an episode one evening, as someone Read more…
In discussing the psychological submodality associated with doing roleplays as part of one’s sexual experience, it’s important to divide them into two categories: dominance and submission oriented roleplays, and everything else. The first category of course primarily arouses based on the psychological sexual play of dominance and submission. These are usually roleplays with clear hierarchies in Read more…
So one evening, during a particularly wild year in my youth, I was at a party wherein there were two rooms with very big screens and computers connected by skype, so people could communicate between the rooms and see what was going on. At one point I’m chilling with a bunch of people in one Read more…
I will share what I recall to be the most enjoyable positions and activities in my threesomes. Overall, though, I’d say the set of combinations of who’s mouth and genitals are on/in whose others’ mouths and genitals is fairly intuitive, and one should try them all! But to break them down: Going at one girl Read more…
There is actually a bit of delicateness that one must use in considering choking. Many “official” bdsm people disavow it completely, out of the principle that it cannot be 100% safe and consensual because of the risk of the bottom losing conscious. However, many do still acknowledge that it can be done harmlessly and essentially Read more…