With maledom play, there are of course many variations and subtleties in any particular sexual relationship, but there are some general patterns and categories of how it can play out.
One central theme in this blog is the diversity of sexual response and behavior. Both the belief that any sexual deviance is indication of a mental health problem and the idea that every woman wants to be be dealt with very roughly are awfully misguided and you’ll find that there are variations and levels of submissive desire. I’d recommend discussing these thoroughly with your partner before trying any of them them outright. Be sure to check out the BDSM safe practices article if you are new to this.
1) Unthemed
In many cases, there is just some activity being performed, spanking, whipping, etc. without much dialogue or imagined context. This is for girls who enjoy some of the sensations of bottoming but not the dominance submission aspect itself (they don’t get into subspace). It can also be a way to introduce new toys before using them in a scene, just at the start of mutual sexual exploration after meeting someone, or just for variety in stimulation for many.
2) Roleplay: Position of Authority
For instance: Teacher-student, boss-secretary, etc. A roleplay wherein the man has some position of authority over the woman, and she has made some serious transgression, and he is both a stern disciplinarian and opportunistic in the situation. Dirty talk would involve a lot of chastisement, more broad/general allegations of naughtiness, her having to endure tribulations to make up for it, and enjoying having her at the position to do with as you please.
3) Roleplay: Captured Rebel
For instance: Spy and agent, Cop and Prostitute, etc. This one is liked by more bratty subs (girls who like to be sassy to instigate punishment). The man captures the woman as she does something against the law or some other rules or regulations. He uses the opportunity to get information from the enemy and ultimately enjoying himself with his capture. Dirty talk mostly involving the satisfaction in having her as you want her and her not being able to do anything about the situation. Girls who like being bratty and like pain can especially enjoy this one, as the female character is naturally sassy and tough.
4) Roleplay: Rape Roleplay
(This is not at all uncommon, so please do not be alarmed if a woman shares this fantasy)
The man is a stranger who forces himself on her. This can be someone she met and had some regular conversation with, and then found herself suddenly alone with, or just a guy that takes her in an alley. Throw her around, pin her down , talk about how much you will enjoy this.
5) Slave Ownership, Posession, and Use
Roleplays, as described above, involve scenes with a distinct start and end of a fairly short (most I’ve done up was 3 hours or so, but usually it’s a abit less than an hour) with distinct fantasy characters who are clearly disassociated from the people playing. An alternative is more of a dominance-submission sexual relationship where there is some pervasive element during large chunks, if not the entirety, of the sexual interaction, and the man and woman take Master and slave roles in this dynamic (they can also switch day-by-day or week-by-week if they are both switches).
Obviously if you are new to this, review the Safe BDSM article before you do any of this.
In this dynamic, the man owns the woman and her body, and thus whenever he likes, he will use it however he likes. It will serve as an instrument for his pleasure, and she is to obey at all times to serve him to the best of his wishes.
6) Slave Punishment and Correction
In this dynamic (and often this one is combined with the previous) the woman is naughty, and generally sinful. In order to achieve repentance for her kinky desires, she must endure punishment, and she must learn to obey commands dutifully to a powerful man in order to correct her character.
Regular dirty talk along these two is essential for maintaining the girl in subspace in this kind of relationship (and it’s fun!).
With the dirty talk, in general you can consider that there is soft and hard dominance, so depending on how you are playing, you would go with just instruction and direction all the way to humiliation and degradation. See the dirty talk guide for reference.