Tthere’s a lot of various exercises appearing in Margot Anand’s work, of different ways to explore each other’s bodies and enhance what could be described as rapport between your skins. I will share some of my favorite ones in The Art of Sexual Ecstasy. First there is a comprehensive broadening of the sensory experiences with Read more…
There are actually two traditions of Tantra: the Taoist, coming from China, and the Vedic, from India. . The Taoist Tantra approach was very practical. It was developed as a way for the Emperor to have the energy to satsify all his concubines as well as rule a large empire. There were prescriptions for how Read more…
During a long slow session of tantric intercourse, you can engage in a few different tools to enhance the immersion of the experience and accelerate the spiritual intimacy. This was mentioned in Practical Tantra but here I give some more details. Aim for the following breathing pattern: as the man thrusts in, he exhales and Read more…
One of the central themes of Tantra is continuity. By maintaining consistent sensation and erotic energy, the capacity for pleasure expands and both partners get continuously more immersed in the experience. Every sensation is treated with more sensitivty to detail and your bodies’ rhythms become very familiar. Waves is a term I came up with, Read more…
A good friend of mine came to me with a concern. He has a casual partner he sees for a whole weekend about once a month. She desires lots of sex, but he found himself fairly drained physically to give her as much as she likes, and also physically tired to enjoy some active adventures Read more…
There is a well known book that caused a lot of stir, the Multi-Orgasmic Man by Mantak Chia (link at the bottom). Basically, through some practices related to Tantra, the author claimed that men could achieve multiple orgasms. What it basically comes down to is being able to induce pulsating sensations and spasms in the Read more…
Tantric sex is, of course, fundamentally rooted in a spiritualist practice, and thus can seem a bit esoteric and inpenetrable someone unfamiliar with it. Although the ideas and principles in the philosophical underpinnings are good to know, you probably want to get started with understanding what you do and what you could expect to get Read more…