In this article I will write about some subtleties in regards to the her on top position. First the basic mechanics, try all these combinations out: her on her knees or her squating.. Her facing you or facing away. And her grinding – keeping it all the way in and just sliding around on top Read more…
There’s been a general revival of Carl Jung and hiis psychoanalytic theories lately. One prominent notion is “the shadow” and the importance of its integration. The (simplified pop-psych version of most relevance here) notion that an important aspect of psychological well being is a healthy relationship to one’s darker primordial urges. As primates we are Read more…
Generally speaking, with enough experience and sufficient sexual frequency, a man can develop full control over his orgasm timing. He can keep going for as long as he and his partner would like to go. This presents an opportunity to, when he does decide to orgasm, do so with a purposefully driven level of precision, Read more…
When you’ve hit a spontaneous urge in an interesting secluded location, or just happen to seek variety even in your own home, let’s consider the best positions available. The most reliable standard is standing with her bending over at 90 degrees and her hands pushing against a wall or other hard object in front of Read more…
See Cunnilingus – Part 1 for the introduction, mindset, and pre-oral teasing activity. Now after teasing her however much you liked to see her tormented in desire, you begin. I am completely behind Ian Kerner “She Comes First” on the beginning, his opening sequence is excellent and most of the my opening is by its Read more…
I have a lot to say about this wonderfull topic, and so I decided to break this up into three parts. The first part will be about some basics in the general mindset and overall and specifically initial approach. The second will be on the beginning and a list of various oral techniques to stimulate Read more…
Performing sexual activity outside the bedroom can be quiite fun and exciting, although not as comfortable as a bed. Just go with whatever options come to mind as a place that’s interesting and, at least at a certain moment in time, you could be there discretely. It can be handy to have some shirt, or, Read more…
I will share what I recall to be the most enjoyable positions and activities in my threesomes. Overall, though, I’d say the set of combinations of who’s mouth and genitals are on/in whose others’ mouths and genitals is fairly intuitive, and one should try them all! But to break them down: Going at one girl Read more…
The other week a friend of mine asked about what seems to be a common concern: many women cannot climax during intercourse without stimulating their clit, and thus have a hard time getting there. They can sometimes “double click” (use their hands to rub themselves during the act) but find it distracting and difficult to Read more…
My standard favorite is on top, but with her ass elevated by lying on top of a pillow, and her legs up on my shoulders. This tends to result in good control and flexibility with regards to the angle of penetration and things one can do in the process. Comedian Ron White calls this position Read more…