It can be fun to send erotic writing or pictures to someone you are sexually involved with, titillating each other in a low key way when you’re not together. In regards to writing: a fun way to tease is to say too bad you’re not there or she’s not here or you’d do this or Read more…
It’s good to use a variety of physical stimulation as you warm her up, and with that both where you’re touching her, which is covered in Other Sensitive Spots and the pacing, which is covered in The Excitement of Unpredictability, but also how. With your hands the choices are: soft caress – using the tips Read more…
One thing I strongly recommend is to avoid getting into a rut of a repetitive patttern of foreplay during “regular” sex. For instance, it could be kissing then kissing her neck and ears then tits then oral then fucking. While overall this structure as a base is reliable, I find it refreshing, fun, and hot Read more…
The foot fetish is the most common fetish, and involves the man being particularly turned on by looking at and touching a woman’s feet. A woman having a fetish for a man’s feet does happen, but is comparatively rare. The book “The Naked Woman” by Desmond Morris outlines every part of a woman’s body and Read more…
This article will cover other common (but typically not universal) sensitive areas on a woman’s body. By sensitive, I mean her enjoying stitmulation from kissing licking and possibly biting there. First of all, a Public Service Announcement (aka a rant): it is standard practice for me on the first lesson plan of the sexual discovery Read more…
Note that full hosiery, stochings and pantyhose, will be in a separate article on legwear. However, one point to mention here is that stocking “socks” especially fishnets, can be a sexy treat. Like most things that women wear to be pleasing to a man’s eye, footwear appeal can come in two flavors: pretty/cute and scorchingly Read more…
Dirty Talk is a fun and great thing to incorporate into foreplay and sex. I either say such things in a commanding tone if my face is away from her or in hopelessly aroused whispers in her ear. There are a few themes that are always good to go with: 1) Desire “I want to Read more…
There are three types of men in this world, Ass, Tits, and Legs men. Of course everyone has rankings, for me legs is first, ass is a close second and tits are a more distant third. In order to maximize your particular pleasure, your options are the following: ASS: Lots of Doggie and Anal (obviously), Read more…