This article will be about principles of how to attach someone to herself or to sturdy objects, called hard points, with rope. For the actual technique of ropework, perhaps that’ll be future articles but you can check out a book on knots. For some examples of ties I like to use, see Bondage Positions. Here Read more…
I will not describe the ties themselves, I’d need to add visual content here then, but I will list and describe some of the best positions for bondage. I will write as if I am tying her up, however, these ties should all work on a man as well. I will begin with the most Read more…
In this article, I will summarize some of the most standard methods for giving pain to a woman’s general crotch area and pussy, and a man’s cock and balls. First let’s begin with activities that you can do with both. After listing them, I will then describe the recommended target area. Biting, slapping, clothes pins. Read more…
In this article I will review the famous 50 Shades of Grey and the less well known but BDSM cult favorite Secretary. Now if you don’t know what 50 Shades of Grey is then please pause further contact with my planet for the time being, it’s not the best time, there’s a lot going on, Read more…
In regards to femdom play, there are a number of different themes, facilitating different types of play and dirty talk, that one can engage in. One thing that can make some women intimidated by the thought of trying femdom is the stereotype image of a shouty bitchy leathered up dominatrix insulting and whipping a cowering Read more…
By partial suspension, I mean that some part of her body is touching a surface allowing her to rest a portion of her weight there, rather than entirely by the tension of the ropes. I confess I have not yet the skills for full suspension, but every great teacher is also a student. First some Read more…
There is much that is positive to be said about this lovely activity. It’s one of those that stimulates all of the senses. The visual of the hand smacking across the ass and it bounce and jiggle after, as well as the red hue that covers the ass after a good spanking. That “smack” sound, Read more…
Switches are BDSM players that both dominate and submit and/or both top and bottom (put simply, the distinction is psychological and physical). There are some subtle points when you are dealing with switches, in terms of navigating the types of rapport you may have, and how to work with it best to have the mutually Read more…
There is actually a bit of delicateness that one must use in considering choking. Many “official” bdsm people disavow it completely, out of the principle that it cannot be 100% safe and consensual because of the risk of the bottom losing conscious. However, many do still acknowledge that it can be done harmlessly and essentially Read more…
With maledom play, there are of course many variations and subtleties in any particular sexual relationship, but there are some general patterns and categories of how it can play out. One central theme in this blog is the diversity of sexual response and behavior. Both the belief that any sexual deviance is indication of a Read more…