No, not including rock and roll, although I am not opposed to doing a Rockstar roleplay wherein I am playing an epic guitar solo while getting a blowjob. So clearly Sex and Drugs go hand in hand as sources of hedonistic joy, but also physical and mental connection. Let’s go through the list of substances Read more…
One day a lover and I decided to spend a day hiking in a national park. Naturally, we figured it’d be appropriate to do a roleplay wherein I would be a forest ranger and she would be venturing on some protected lands where she wasn’t supposed to venture, and punishment, etc. would ensue. We were Read more…
The other week a friend of mine asked about what seems to be a common concern: many women cannot climax during intercourse without stimulating their clit, and thus have a hard time getting there. They can sometimes “double click” (use their hands to rub themselves during the act) but find it distracting and difficult to Read more…
A good friend of mine came to me with a concern. He has a casual partner he sees for a whole weekend about once a month. She desires lots of sex, but he found himself fairly drained physically to give her as much as she likes, and also physically tired to enjoy some active adventures Read more…
My standard favorite is on top, but with her ass elevated by lying on top of a pillow, and her legs up on my shoulders. This tends to result in good control and flexibility with regards to the angle of penetration and things one can do in the process. Comedian Ron White calls this position Read more…
The social stratification of orgasms is like a typical capitalist country for women, and socialist for men. For women: About 20% cannot orgasm at all. The underclass About 55% can climax with clitoral stimulation : the working and middle class About 25% can climax purely vaginally: the upper middle class Of those: About 10% can Read more…
With maledom play, there are of course many variations and subtleties in any particular sexual relationship, but there are some general patterns and categories of how it can play out. One central theme in this blog is the diversity of sexual response and behavior. Both the belief that any sexual deviance is indication of a Read more…
There is a well known book that caused a lot of stir, the Multi-Orgasmic Man by Mantak Chia (link at the bottom). Basically, through some practices related to Tantra, the author claimed that men could achieve multiple orgasms. What it basically comes down to is being able to induce pulsating sensations and spasms in the Read more…
Dirty Talk is a fun and great thing to incorporate into foreplay and sex. I either say such things in a commanding tone if my face is away from her or in hopelessly aroused whispers in her ear. There are a few themes that are always good to go with: 1) Desire “I want to Read more…
Tantric sex is, of course, fundamentally rooted in a spiritualist practice, and thus can seem a bit esoteric and inpenetrable someone unfamiliar with it. Although the ideas and principles in the philosophical underpinnings are good to know, you probably want to get started with understanding what you do and what you could expect to get Read more…