See Cunnilingus – Part 1 for the introduction, mindset, and pre-oral teasing activity.
Now after teasing her however much you liked to see her tormented in desire, you begin. I am completely behind Ian Kerner “She Comes First” on the beginning, his opening sequence is excellent and most of the my opening is by its guidelines.
Begin with circling the hole itself and then slide your tongue in and tongue fuck it. Now how long, and with what intensity, etc. you can vary, it can be fun to fuck it real intensely and deeply and really dig around there. Then start sliding the tongue out of tthe hole and up and around but not touching the clit, then go back down to the hole and repeat over and over for a while and then start brushing up your tongue on the clit when you go up and continue to go down and up like this for a while. Eventually start focusing on the clit exclusively.
Now in the beginning, the classic “alphabet techniique” is generally appropriate, but really just get the principle of it: unpredictable strokes both on and around the clit in both loopy and sharp lines. Keep it fairly evenly paced and just explore different angles of her clit and the surrounding area. Lick around various directions and speeds and using different parts of your tongue and see how she reacts to various sensations.
Next there are many fun little moves to do to get that clit heated up.
There’s this cool technique called “the Flame” from a book of a French Gigolo and the idea is that you consider your tongue like a bouncing flame that’s haphazardly flicking up various directions quickly and chaotically.
Good sequence of strokes on the clit: Up down pause up left right pause left
Go down to her hole again dig in and come back up sometimes. Sometimes it’s possible to tongue fuck her and flick her clit with your upper lip at the same time.
Use the entire top of your tongue and slurp the clit and area around it all up like a cat licking somethng.
Push your face in her pussy and just grind your lips and mouth entirely on her pussy shaking your head back and forth. Hum and growl in delight.
Spiral in and spiral out.
One stroke pause two strokes pause, etc.
The only way I can think to describe this technique is like a critter nibbling on something. Float around and then suddenly dart to the clit, rub and flick it a few times for a quick moment and dart back out and glilde around it more and then suddenly dart back to it etc., each time varying how much you do.
You can also bounce the top of your tongue lightly up and off her pussy and then spend increasingly more time digging in it when you land on it.
Create a suction with your lips around and lightly tap the clit with your tongue.
Use her inner lips to quickly circle your tongue like a wheel, right from the clit to the edge of the lips then up and around and from the left side dart across the clit and go in this circle quickly.
You can use your hands to rub open her pussy up, to play with her nipples, or otherwise hold her.
In Part 3 I will discuss finishing moves, orgasms, and the use of a finger.