First, I will address a question that peoplle may ask, then I will describe what each gets from the experience, and finally I Iwill go through the process and the best means to enjoy it.
Frequently Asked Question: “Dude, don’t you worry that’d be gay?”
Answer: That’s a stupid question. If I was gay I wouldn’t worry about being gay, I would just go bang a bunch of dudes. But I don’t want to, so no, I don’t worry about that. And anyway saying that pegging is gay is like sayinng a man masturbating you with a fleshlight is straight.
Prevalence of Enjoymennts for her: About 40% are opposed to it. Younger women tend to be more open to it. Most of the ones who enjoy it bond through the understanding of the other role, a strong majority of the ones who enjoy it are aroused by the visual (but a contributing factor in my case is the quality of my ass 😉 ), many find performing the act itself exhilerating, and some enjoy clit stimulation from the strap-on pushing the harness rubbing them on the other side. Also there are vibrators you can put on the inside or iin pouches of some strap-ons to give her clitoral stimulation. Some just find it interesting, a novel experience for variety’s sake. There is also a “feel-doe “type strapon which goes into both him and her, but it’s size is unadjustable and in general my experience is it doesn’t hold so well.
Enjoyment for him: It feels a bit strange at first. Make sure to follow the guidelines below. Overall it’s a unique sensation that is pleasureable due to nerve endiings there in general but especially the g-spot that is in the tissue facing up from the asshole. When something rubs against it, there is a powerful pleasureable sensation. It can be quite intense, and at the same time profoundly relaxing .The orgasms with it are of a different form, they go by the vagus nerve, and they feel very deep and pulsating.
How To:
- Wash your ass and asshole thoroughly with soap.
- Start with a finger. Use lube, lube, and more lube. First circle the finger around the asshole then slide it in.
- After workinig up to two fingers, or, alternatively, anal beads, you can move on to the strap-on. She will wear a harness that strapons around her waist and crotch with an attachment for a dildo. Start with a small dildo and work your way up.
- Use a lot of lube. And then even more lube than that.
- And then some more lube.
- All three positions are possible: doggie-style, the man on his back and holding his legs up and back (I strongly recommend to lie on top on a big pillow), and her lyinng down and him riding her.
- And in case you forgot, add more lube
- It is easiest to finish when the man is on his back, then one of them can rub his cock while she continues to fuck him in the ass.
Note: Tantric techniques of interrupting and preventinig an incoming orgasm and continuing on do not work in the case of this kind of orgasm due to the fact that the signal is transmitted through a different channel in the nervous system. This was related to me in a correspondence with a sexologist a long time ago.